Forever Together: Conjoined Twins Kendra And Maliyah’s Inspirational Story

Appreciating The Beauty Of Life

The Herrin family’s extended family rallied around for support when the girls were released. Their grandfather, Jeff Warren, came to the hospital on the day of the girls’ release. He wheeled them out in this wagon, and the girls had big smiles on their faces as they left the hospital behind. Seeing the reporters waiting for them, Maliyah called out, “Hey, everybody, it’s us!” Jeff paused to show the girls a flower from the Medical Center’s garden while reporters caught up with the parents. “This is a huge day for us, going home, “Jake Herrin said as he stood next to his wife. He continued, “We can’t believe it’s here already. We’ve been dreaming of this day for a very long time.”

The Parents Spoke About What’s Ahead For Their Girls

Despite having survived the surgery, the parents knew there were still many challenges ahead for the girls. Immediately following their release from the hospital, the parents spoke about some of the immediate challenges the girls had to face. They needed special mattresses to lay on and had to keep up with a strict medication regime. They also needed their bandages changed three times each week, which was a job that would take two hours for Kendra and Maliyah. In addition to that, Maliyah required special nutrition through a feeding tube and needed to undergo dialysis three times a week until she could receive a donor kidney. The parents had a plan for helping their daughters gain independent mobility that involved the use of wheelchairs to a while, followed by crutches and, eventually, being fitted for prosthetic legs. There was a lot on the horizon for this little family, but on the day they arrived home from the hospital, they were just happy to celebrate this miracle with their closest friends and family.

Learning To Walk Independently

Learning to walk independently presented a massive challenge for the twins. They’d already learned how to maneuver around as conjoined twins, and now they had to relearn how to move their bodies separately from each other. They began using wheelchairs to get around, but their parents were determined to help them learn to walk. Kendra and Maliyah underwent physical therapy where they learned to walk using crutches and walkers. It was a challenging time, but the parents frequently commented on their girls’ amazing resilience. Somehow, despite facing more difficulties in their short years than most adults experience in a lifetime, they never lost hope. They never stopped fighting to improve their situation, and the girls were an immense support to each other as the navigated the world as separate individuals.

Maliyah Needed Two Kidney Transplants

Following the separation, Maliyah underwent dialysis until she could receive a kidney transplant. Unfortunately, this isn’t a simple process, and sometimes it doesn’t work out as expected. Maliyah received a kidney from her mother, Erin, in 2007. Both Erin and Maliyah appeared to be recovering well from their respective surgeries, and life went on for years without further complications. Sadly, in 2015, it became clear that Maliyah’s body was rejecting her transplanted kidney. Doctors tried their best to slow the rejection and prevent Maliyah from needing a second transplant, but her body continued to reject the donor organ. Thankfully, an anonymous donor was found in 2018, and Maliyah underwent her second transplant surgery. As of 2023, it appears her body is continuing to accept the new donor organ without any issues.

 

Learning To Love Themselves And Each Other As Individuals

The initial adjustment was difficult for Kendra and Maliyah. They’d spent the first four years of their lives as conjoined twins, never spending a second apart. It created a sense of combined identity that was difficult for the girls to unlearn. With the support of their parents and a team of professionals, the girls began to learn to love themselves and each other as individuals. Kendra and Maliyah spoke extensively on their Youtube channel and in interviews about this period. They described the oddness of the initial period of separation and their ultimate gratitude for the difficult choice their parents made. In fact, the twins have expressed that they have such different personalities that they couldn’t imagine being forced to spend every second of every day together! Erin and Jake have expressed their pride in interviews for the well-adjusted, strong women their daughters are growing up to become. Despite all the worry, risks, and continuing medical treatments, the Herrin family is content that they made the right choice.

Celebrating Life Together, But Separately

After their surgery, Kendra and Maliyah enjoyed the experience of celebrating life together but separately. The girls still spent most of their time together, but their newfound independence allowed them to explore their own interests. Celebrating holidays with their family became a new experience as the girls no longer relied on each other for every moment. Kendra and Maliyah celebrated the 4th of July with their family, and their mother captured this photo of them sitting together on the family’s pool diving board. The smiles on their sun-kissed faces really say it all. While they enjoyed celebrating these moments together, they enjoyed having some independence from each other even more. This photo captured a key moment in the twins’ lives as they began their journey as separate individuals.

The Excitement Of Starting School

Starting school is an exciting period in any young girl’s life, but the excitement was even more intense for Kendra and Maliyah. As they entered middle school, they realized that this was another opportunity to gain some independence from each other. They would no longer be in the same class all day long and could instead explore their own interests and make separate friends. Erin and Jake have remarked in interviews that they noticed this was a critical time in their young daughter’s lives. The pressures and challenges of middle school were nothing compared to the overwhelming journey their girls had already faced. Kendra and Maliyah approached going to school with curiosity and a sense of adventure. They couldn’t wait to see what the world had to offer.

Getting Around In School Wasn’t Easy

With cramped hallways, limited time to get from their lockers to their classes, and a sea of classmates to navigate through, Kendra and Maliyah faced more than the usual challenges as high schoolers. The twins still struggled with their mobility and spoke in interviews about their difficulties getting around the school building and classrooms. Thankfully, just like their parents, the twins were creative people. Occasionally, they’d use their mobility scooters to get around, but the twins also relied heavily on crutches and other methods. They used stools with wheels to help get around tight classrooms and wheeled chairs in the library. Ultimately, Kendra and Maliyah knew there was no challenge they couldn’t overcome, and they did their best to navigate the world without showing frustration for the difficulties they experienced.

High School Was A Positive Experience For The Twins

High school can be a really difficult time. Teenagers are already dealing with a lot of challenges during their adolescent years, but Kendra and Maliyah had a unique set of difficulties that had the potential to ostracize them from their peers. Thankfully, the positive mindset their parents, Erin and Jake, instilled in them from a young age helped them navigate the world of high school. Despite their struggles with mobility and learning to be independent, Kendra and Maliyah had a positive experience during high school. The twins have said that they didn’t experience any bullying during those four years, which is a miracle in and of itself! Their positivity drew likeminded people to them and kept them afloat as they experienced the ups and downs of high school life.

Their Bravery In School Pays Off

Kendra and Maliyah worked hard during school. Along with the usual studies, they worked hard to learn to walk and build their identities as separate people. Despite the difficulties, the twins managed to overcome all the odds. They learned to navigate around with the help of crutches and other mobility devices. They built meaningful, life-long friendships that helped them through the tough times. When Kendra and Maliyah graduated from high school, it was one of the happiest days of their parents’ lives. Their parents reflected on how they weren’t even sure if the girls would survive 24 hours after birth. Yet, they overcame that and the separation surgery and both of Maliyah’s transplants. Their graduation day was one filled with happiness and excitement for the future. But there was still another challenge the twins needed to overcome before they could enjoy their independence outside of high school.

Learning To Drive Was A Challenge They Were Excited To Take On

Every young adult is excited and nervous to learn how to drive. It’s a pivotal moment in a young person’s life and the ultimate transition from relying on the adults in your life to relying more fully on yourself. Kendra and Maliyah spent their entire lives learning how to be mobile, and this was just the latest in a series of challenges they were determined to overcome. The girls worked hard to learn the basics of driving and then put their skills to the test on the road. Despite the unique set of challenges the previously conjoined twins faced as drivers, they managed to learn how to navigate the roads with just as much grace and confidence as they’d learned how to navigate life. It seems Kendra and Maliyah are unstoppable when they put their minds to something!

Always Staying Positive And Moving Forward

With each new challenge the girls faced, they fell back on maintaining the positive mindset their parents instilled in them from a young age. This positivity got them through their separation surgery, learning to be mobile, learning to be independent from one other, Maliyah’s transplant surgeries, and every other obstacle the girls faced throughout their young lives. Their positivity has been a source of inspiration for the others in their lives and has shown the fans who have followed their story that it is possible to overcome anything that life throws your way. Having a positive mindset has also helped them navigate a world that isn’t always friendly to those with disabilities. This is why the twins continue to speak out about their experiences and offer their support to others going through similar challenges.

Advocating For People With Disabilities

Kendra and Maliyah’s story was so unique and rare that it immediately drew attention from the media and the public. People have been following their story since they were born, and it has given the girls a unique platform. They use this platform to advocate for people with disabilities. The girls have spoken about the challenges they’ve faced due to their own disabilities and the importance of having open, respectful communication with people about their disabilities. Kendra and Maliyah have encouraged those living with disabilities to speak out about their experiences and needs. They’re working toward creating a more inclusive world for us all, which is yet another admirable piece of the twins’ journey.

Where Are They Now?

The journey of the Herrin twins continues to be an inspiration as they reach new and exciting milestones. Kendra began working as a cashier in a grocery store after high school, and during this time, she attended school to obtain her phlebotomy certification. Maliyah went in a different direction. She attended Davis Technical College and recently graduated with a degree in digital media. She dreams of starting a career in graphic design. The girls celebrated their 20th birthday in 2022, and their family couldn’t be more grateful that the girls’ story has continued on such a positive, fulfilling path. Kendra and Maliyah have already proven that they have the ability to overcome anything life throws at them. They’re looking forward to the future, and we’re looking forward to seeing what other amazing things these twins accomplish!