
33. “Girly Girl”
During the interview process, try to come into contact with as many of the existing employees as possible and see how they act and how they treat you. During one interview process many years ago, the other girls I met came off as kind of b*tchy. Then during the interview, the boss asked me if I’m a “girly girl” – which I’m obviously not and I confirmed it. She said it was a girly girl environment so I might find it hard to fit in. So for me, that was a massive red flag for b*tchiness and toxicity. Got the job, but turned it down.
For later job interview processes I asked to meet a number of employees during the interview process and this was facilitated for me. If there’s nothing to hide and it’s a good environment, they’ll be happy to make this happen for you. I’d say it’s an incredibly useful thing to do to make sure the place matches your work ethic and your values.