3. Heartbreaking to Absorb
Ok, so as soon as the bride and groom got out of church everyone went to congratulate them and give gifts (which usually are flowers/alcohol + envelopes). The bride had a pen and notebook and she signed each envelope or wrote in the notebook if someone didn’t give her an envelope. Later as we went to the restaurant where the party was about to start we waited for 2 hours for the pair. Turns out they made a stop during their ride to count money. As they finally got to the party they started complaining that they didn’t make enough to pay for the party expenses and earn more. They only spend time only with the “rich” part of the family. The “poor” tables didn’t get the good cakes/food. There was literally different food on some tables. I sat near our poor part of the family, no meat or cakes made it to the table. And like 7 other people didn’t get forks, only spoons (why would you give a fork to someone when there’s only soup for them to eat right?). Now, mind you I gave them enough to pay for like 5 “plates/people” and I helped them during preparations, I even baked a few cakes that I didn’t get to eat in the end. Half of the people got out after like 20 minutes. The bride called them all terrible for “ruining her dream wedding”. Worst wedding ever, and that is just a part of the whole wedding mess. I wish I had a car back then so I could go back home as well, as the wedding was terrible for many other reasons as well. The groom was cheap, the bride was a Karen.